Once I heard a man politely ask a woman in front of him at the crowded door of the bus, “Are you get off ?” The woman made no response. “Getting off?” he asked again. The woman still made no response. “Getting off, or not ?” he shouted, as he was getting impatient, but there was still no response. “Are you deaf ,or dumb?” he burst out .Very much irritated, he gave her a silght push , which attracted the attention of other passengers. Also irritated , the woman stared at him and hit back