Women are not machines for Sex! Men are not machines for Money! Both need love, warmth, patience and support. Both men and women need the same thing; a partner they can count on in hard times; someone who is willing to sacrifice and give not only form the wallet; but from the heart. What value is a beautiful body or a large bank account when it comes down to life's most important issues; family, love, children and happiness? They say money cannot buy love; but really money does have its place; it is important to pay bills; educate children well and provide quality medical care when needed. But giving is always the key to happiness; give what you can when you can and your heart will be at peace. Don;t be petty or greedy or unfair with others. And if others abuse this goodness then stand your ground and speak your mind. A happy marriage can only happen when BOTH not only ONE partner is caring and giving daily. I am from the USA, I live in Thailand. I have spend many years traveling around Asia and have developed a keen understanding of Asian cultures and people. There are many reasons why people reach out online to others, some of those reasons are based on personal gain, others based on a sincere desire to communicate and share. In my life I have learned certain things; never to judge others or assume I know who they really are, far better to allow time and experience to guide us. I have also learned to be patient and kind; for without those qualities nothing will grow or bloom. I hope to meet a nice person to share things with; I know this; those who are spiritually of the same essence will know each other without words... no amount of makeup or money ... no fancy car or slick talk can replace sincere words and right actions. Love is either a fools game or a souls salvation; it all depends on the attitude and behavior of each person. We cannot get more then we are willing to give; so I think each person needs to look inside himself to see just what he or she is really willing to offer before they consider how much they are going to get....