I found this pleasant :) I think it’s a sweet gesture. Knowing and sharing what your standards are is important, especially when searching for a companion. I also believe that writing it down is an excellent way to manifest positive energy and hold yourself accountable to those things you hold dear and need your partner to hold dear, too.
I also see it as an invitation and as encouragement to your future wife, but also to anyone who may feel touched by what was posted, to live well, happy, and honestly. It’s a call to be the best ‘YOU’ and to know that a person is wonderful and powerful and enough without anything else.
To be honest, though, one of the reasons I read this was because of my curiosity on how people, especially girls, responded to the post. I read the hook, “Wow. All girls should read this. This. Guy. Is. A. Gem.” Among my first thoughts, I wondered, “How many girls are going to be interested in him now?”
I’m not going to ask if you get or have already received any phone numbers or dates as a result of this post- but I will admit I’m curious and find it interesting.
After reading the post I found the letter to your future wife to be wonderful. I’m also happy to see how well you’ve responded to criticism.