Love, is a responsibility. I am 100% committed to this relationship with the efforts to sacrifice anything it might require in this relationship .Raising a family is an enjoyable experience, in the process, everyone tend to let-go a part of themselves...well....guess that's normal ( have you watched "Date Night" ;)...that was a hilarious movie ) however, we have grown individually emotionally and spiritually. I, myself, loves kids, devoted to family, but I do have this intrinsic need to have a little world of my own, I enjoy earning a living on my own, no matter what.