At times you may overreact to emotional situations and expend too much psychic energy in coping with a relationship.
The basic detriment of this attitude is the drain on your energy, leaving you unable to deal with a really demanding situation. Since your emotional overreactions tend to run in set patterns, you can get around this difficulty by relying on your partner to let you know when you are going too far.
Part of the reason for this over-expenditure of energy may be that you feel that nobody understands your message unless you really assault them with it. You can solve that problem by being very verbally precise.