Step 10: Do a relationship checkup It is often wise to pull out your calendars and book a lunch or coffee meeting in a month or so to discuss how each party is feeling about the situation and occurrences since the breach of trust occurred. It is also helpful to schedule this date during the first meeting because it may seem awkward to bring it up after this time. This step ensures that parties will have a reason to meet and an opportunity to talk things through at a later date.