In Japanese Buddhist traditions, dark, somber colors for the clothing are advised. In
Cambodian, Thai or Ceylonese traditions, white colors are advised.
It is appropriate to send flowers to the funeral or make a donation of a range of five
to one hundred dollars. That depends on the relation of the deceased. Typically, the
bereaved family recommends a specific charity or cause as recipient of donations.
It is not appropriate to have foods as gifts.