Ok my dear. Let's see how things work out between us. I think we need to have a little time to think about it. I only spent a week with you. I want to know you better. I stay true and loyal to you, and only you..
Not a test my dear. It is customary in America to spend time with each other and get to know each other really well before you decide to marry that person.
I am interested in marriage with you. You are a good girl. I just want to make sure you are the one.
You should. Try it out for now. Then come to America.