Okay, so I haven't really spoken to my brother in 2 years. We just don't get along. We can't sit in a room together for 5 minutes without getting into an argument about something. It can be anything. I don't like the things he does and he doesn't like the things I do. He's too forceful when he talks and it's always his way or no way. You have to do what he says because he is always right and he thinks he's better than you. It really boils my skin even when I'm near him.
Next week though, i'm going back home for a few days and I want to go out for a beer with both my brothers but I'm just not sure how to not get mad when he starts saying stuff. How do I try and have a normal conversation without the guy putting me down every chance he gets? You're not doing this, you're not doing that. You'll always be this way for the rest of your life. You're worthless, all that crap.
The other issue is that he always brings up money every chance he gets. He always tells me "I have to pay for this, that. says I've never pulled my weight around. Says I have to pitch in even more and I have to start paying off my mom's mortgage and all this stuff.