yeah,you are right
my culture being nice and not hurting anyones feelings is more important
it's just different, not right or wrong. we are called polite,manners person
"up to you" i think may be her english is not good or shy to speak/pronounce
thats why they are always "up to you"
I'm quiet to be a curious girl so i can ask what i want to know.
and fight if that wrong or difference thinking. it not good but not bad too
whats about a difference app that you will send me your pic?