Relationships between Lao people are primarily based on family ties with less interest shown to strangers or outsiders. Trust is limited to those within this circle. When the Lao have problems, need help or require a confidant, they turn to family members or close friends, and less frequently to their associates. As a result, a Lao person will spend most of his or her energy on relationships within this circle rather than among strangers, work colleagues or casual acquaintances. Lao people may show shyness with strangers and rarely initiate a conversation with someone they do not know, except, perhaps, if they wish to practice their English. Although these characteristics will not prevent you from making Lao friends, it may require considerable time and patience on your part to develop close, trusting relationships.