You are the reason you are fighting!!!!!!? Please! Lookngong, you are in pain and you want him to know your feelings. This is not the reason for the fight. The reason for the fight is, you never see him. Let me ask you a question..... will he ignore you each and every time you have an issue after you are married? If yes, is that the kind of life you want? You will always be in pain when you live with someone that does not care about your feelings. Trust me. My wife was very selfish. Look at me now......