Heather's upset by something you said and I must respect that as her friend. I'll also need to check with my boyfriend if it's ok to talk with you, as you know I'm in a serious relationship and my bf is aware of your 'friendship' with heather, it is possible that he will not like it. I would advise going to the language meetup groups, there's a few that look good. I really must study now, it'll be a busy few weeks til end of June for me, but if you have any language queries you can message.