Thank you for your honesty because it's always better to speak the truth. I am glad you feel comfortable with what ever we are doing and yes I ask you to do different things to bring new and excitement to your life. Doing different things are always stuck in your mind and if it makes you feel good and will always bring a smile to your face when you think about it. Don't worry in January you are not ever going to wear panties when we're together inside our out.