We learn we deserve better
Thankfully, as we get older, we get to know ourselves better. We become stronger. Our goals become clearer.
We’re still attracted to the macho assh*le, but our ultimate aim of a purposeful relationship with a reliable partner becomes the priority.
These assh*les who stimulate our emotions in all the wrong ways won’t be worth it anymore. It takes a certain maturity to make this decision, and it doesn’t normally happen until the right guy reveals himself.
As with any great love story, the good guy will always win in the end, and you’ll be glad that he did.