i want you to know that i mean everything i have been telling you , i am not joking with you , i understand your life now and i think that you need time to settle some issue in your life but i will come to Thailand and see you after my mission here in Afghanistan before going back to USA, then when i get back to USA i can invite you are Min to visit me . i have understood you very well and i want to give you time to arrange your life and make a decision , i dont want to rush you to make a decision . i think you need more time .