Dearest Pim,
Don't take everything so seriously!
In fact it was a wish,for the both of us,it means that I hope you will find a nice guy to marry,and that I hope to find a nice girl,so we can be guests on eachothers wedding!
Altough a relation is practical almost impossible,I surely wish you will find another man to become a very happy girl!
I can feel some spiritual things we have in common,you well could be my soulmate,but we are both a little older,we are grown Boy and Girl,and practically spoken we simply don't match!
But I like you very much,therefor I hope we both will find true happiness in future!
Vaya con Dios,
yours sincerely,Stan