Someone to share and spend the rest of my life with You see, I feel there are few very basic but essential elements of a relationship.. (1) Identifying the need to be in a relationship (2) decision and readiness to contribute to it success 3) HONESTY (4) TRUST (5) MUTUAL RESPECT, (6) DEVOTIONAL COMMITMENT WITH A READINESS TO MAKE SACRIFICES knowing full well that a Gold must go through fire before it can be purified and graded They are also to a degree sequential.