As I mentioned not long ago, you shouldn’t rely on something of the degree of an engagement between nobles either.
The head of a noble’s household decides for their companions as they please. Even so, if the nobles having pushed the marriage upon them this way didn’t think well of the other party, they immediately ended up cancelling the marriage at their own convenience.
Also, since Elise will live in the royal capital until she becomes an adult, I expect there won’t be many opportunities to meet face-to-face with me who will be in Breitburg.
Therefore I considered to stop making such an extent of ruckus, too.