all human being are born into families,and families being with the joining together of a man and a woman in marriage.All societies have their own form of marriage.The ideas that we have about marriage are part of our cultural background;they are part of our basic beliefs about right and wrong.As we study marriage,we find that different cultures have solved the problem of finding a spouse in different ways.Finding a marriage partner has never been easy for people,no matter when or where they have lived