First of all, one question is, can I be real in the relationship? This has come to have an increasing amount of importance to me over the years. I feel that genuineness is another way of describing the quality I would like to have. I like the term 'congruent', by which. I mean that what I am experiencing inside is present in my awareness and comes out through my communication. In a sense, when I have this quality, I am all in one piece in the relationship. There is another word that describes it for me. I feel that in the relationship, I would like to have a 'transparency.' I would be quite willing for my client to see all the way through me, that there would be nothing hidden. And when lam real in this fashion that I'm trying to describe, then know that my own feelings will often bubble up into awareness and be expressed, but be expressed in ways that won't impose themselves on my client.