Will you lend me fifty dollars ? I'll pay it right bank. The saying goes: Lend money to friend and you lose the money and the friend. It may be a simple matter of a friend asking you to pay for a sandwich because he or she forgot money. Or it could be you pay for your friend's bus fare because all your friend has is a large bill. Or you may larger amounts of money. Here is what some people have to say about this sensitive issue