As for my part , I will never leave you, I stick beside you because to me you are my wife, papers or no papers, in earlier times there was no need for paper to say we were married . As far as the comfort , I do suspect I'll be home sick and get tired of not being able to speak to anyone in english. I suspect I won't like the food and perhaps lose some weight . I suspect I will feel crowded and less independent and not very good as a man who can't provide for you. I will miss everyone in my family