Lek if you notice I have been making a effort to spend more time with you and Rae. I think every night this week I come home and eat dinner with you and Rae. I am making an effort , I work at least 10 hours a day 6 days a week, the only time I don't spend with you is if I see my friends once in the week so I don't see how that turns into "you don't have time for your wife"? You have had the 7 people over to eat and talk several times. Do I accuse you of not wanting to be with me, No I don't. I think it's good for you to have friends and because you spend time with them doesn't mean you don't want to be with me. It means you like spending some time with friends.