Dear Julie,
I recently checked with OPM to see if the application had been submitted for Mary's survivor benefits. They said no. I encourage you to complete the application asap. This will give you both money needed for your educations. It will also help me to know that school fees are taken care of.
If you need any help please let me know. You are both in my thoughts and prayers every day that life will give you much happiness.
Warm regards,
Michon