Dating” means different things to different people, particularly across generations. At loveisrespect, we define “dating” as two people in an intimate relationship. The relationship may be sexual, but it does not have to be. It may be serious or casual, straight or gay, committed or open, short-term or long-term. The important thing to remember is that dating abuse can occur within all kinds of intimate relationships.
So, are we dating?
Whether you call it “dating” or something else, both people should agree on a definition and the same ground rules for the relationship. Keep these questions in mind:
Do you have romantic feelings for this person?
Are you and the person you’re interested in both looking for a committed relationship?
Do you hang out or go on dates without a group of friends?
Is the status of your relationship something you’ve shared with others in person or online, like on Facebook?
Do both people in the relationship agree that it’s exclusive?