Go for what you want in life before who you want
Even though its clear Blair and Chuck are made for each other, they decide to put off being together so many times to follow their own dreams first. During the third season she said “I would never put my fate in someone else’s hands and that’s why I always win… and you lose.” Blair is a go-getter, and she doesn’t smile sweetly and wait for everyone else to get ahead. She has the right idea.