Hello Jira,
How are you doing today and how is your family over there, I guess you are fine and healthy. I was glad to read your email today. There is something about distance I hold on to, which has been the reason why I signed up my profile online. I always believe that in every good relationship distance or language does not really matter much and should not be a problem if the both parties put their hearts into it . What matters a lot is the understanding that binds the both parties. I always believe that when the love and trust is there, we can be together and so it must not be a problem. My dear I know that when we communicate always we will get to know each other very well. I am a Military Personnel by profession and I have been currently deployed to Damascus Syria because of the war issues affecting them over there . I have two sons from my past marriage who are the reason for my existence. My first son David is 13 years old, and my second son Terry is 8 years. It was so terrible for me when I lost the mother of my kids last three years as she has been suffering of hemorrhage for some years before her eventual death. And since then I guess I have been in a lonely world with a kind of frustration that always kept me like a barrier away from the outside world. Things have been so difficult for me since her death as I found out that being a single dad for two adolescent kids can be the most painful and frustrated job anyone can wish for themselves. At the moment, my kids are in a boarding school in California as I have no one to take care of them for me as I left them to my mission in Syria. I am a man of sincerity and trust because I guess I know myself enough to be truthful to myself at all times. I try to always believe in truth as I was brought up in a christian home. Loneliness has been a world I have got myself acquainted to since the death of my wife and so I have decided to take this bold step forward and see what the future holds for me positively.
My dear I was glad to see that you replied my request on pen pal and I would like to see your picture if you don't because I know in my heart that you are beautiful woman and I believe every men will like to spend his life with you Jira. I will sent you my pictures but know it well that I am not photogenic.Take good care of yourself as I am expecting to hear from you again.
Best regards,
Anthony.k.
On Monday, August 3, 2015 10:56 AM, Jira Jira wrote:
Hello Anthony.K. thank you. Answer me and tell a little history, let me know for my history. My name JIRA.
I live in Bangkok, Thailand
I work under the Ministry of education. At present, I am already retired
.Resume. I not live with my husband, about more than 20 years since you I was a child, I have daughter 2 people share responsibility. I take care of the oldest
.Husband and take care of the youngest daughter. But at present 2 married people. Now I live with my little daughter, granddaughter and son-in-law, the eldest daughter in the house husband
.Your history, tell me, I don't know what's wrong with you (if I translate correctly.) but if we are friends, I just want you to forget the past. Think about the present and the future. Past away, happy with life
.I'll tell you, I'm tired of life. I must take care of yourself and you work save everything, my husband is never give money for me
I fight. And I like to solve the problem when there are obstacles
.If you have a problem, ask you to fight with life, forget the past, think former it is a lesson, leave it and restart happy. I support you!Life is short, we don't know we die when, for me, I think that's why I don't go back to think about the past. Do the best
from new friends the good wishes and sincere. If you have time, I'll answer any time
Thailand
On Sunday, August 2, 2015 10:42 PM, Anthonykane ramos wrote:
Hello dear
Thank you for writing me as I was glad to see that you replied to my request on Pen pal It shows we can get serious apart from the occasional "hello" which we can write once in a while . I believe commitments begin when two mature minds give themselves the benefit of doubt and communicate about the things that are happening around them openly within themselves by sharing it with someone who can listen to them and make possible remarks. This way, we can be able to learn new cultures and way of life of others, thereby making them closer not even feeling the distance that is between them as their hearts will always be close to each other with time. Sincerity also plays a vital role in this, because when people discuss issues that are affecting them or making them happy openly. So I guess I am ready once again to open up to the world after an existence of being alone by myself.
Okay I have to tell you a little about myself as I believe we can't get to know each other just a day. As you know already, my name is Anthony Kane Ramos. I am an American from California United States, I am 57yrs old. I am a man of my words and so I don't say things I don't mean, because I believe I have past the stage of lying to myself how much more others. As I don't see what I intend to gain, so I implore you to do the same in every of our conversations while communicating here. Well I also would like you to know that I have two sons from my past marriage, who are the reason for my existence and never giving up in the world of pains I wake up and find myself sometimes. I do not intend to take them out of any friendship or relationship I share with anyone as they play an important role in my life. Sometimes I get busy with work here because I guess I turned into a workaholic maybe trying to forget the things I never would like to remember anymore. But then I found out I was indirectly hiding behind the fear of coming out of my shell of loneliness. So right now I would like to take a bold step even if others see it as a risk, to come out again and face the sunshine by meeting someone sometime but I still have to take things step by step.
I would like to know more about you like your family background, your profession, your relationship status right now and if you do have kids. What is the idea of your ideal man, and if you feel you can be open to discuss certain things with me just like I would like to open up. How do you view commitments, and then I would also like to know the little things you like that keeps you going in this unfair world. Are you a religious person, what are your favorites in certain things like food, sports, music e.t.c. Well I have to stop writing now and face my daily tasks over here at work as I believe today would definitely be busy. Hope to read from you soon again.
Best regards,
Anthony .K.