People who can't see this either don't understand what makes a good marriage, arranged marriages, or are not able to think logically. Which unfortunately, can be seen in the many divorcees who got married for looks, love, etc. Things of no real value on their own. How many times have you fallen out of love? Did you marry everyone that you ever loved? Can you imagine if you did? Are you now stuck with someone that you have nothing in common with?