Thanks for you quick reply dear, a just coming back from work now, i feel pleased to read your massage,you are lucky to have brothers and sister, are they married,am the only child in my family,, i have my old lovely mother with me she is 79 years old, my daughter Jane is 13 years old living with me as well..ever since my late wife died i have been single because i choose to give her much respect.i don't like partying always as am always busy with work..