Love, as often happens always beautiful. But when it ended, Love those remains and painful to someone. No less a person who still hold on the past and missing the present moment. Just they took the past come into the present and remain them. It has many factors are causes of these problems, may be due to their heart still hold on and couldn’t let go the old love pass. It may a good times happened for a long times. Usually, those person wanted to forget them but it had a conflict happened in their heart when their head and their heart worked opposite. Moreover, the confrontation with the reality, they can’t continue to live happily ever had. Another factors isn’t open the heart to others because of couldn’t forget the old love and afraid of the painful to come up with a new love. These are the painful make them can’t move on and make them hold on with that too long. In addition, sometime those problem must have the therapist helped them to get free from these mournfulness.
I agree with this article because some good memory happened in the past between two persons, and may occur for a long time. Thus they couldn’t forget them. When there is a new love come through maybe not as good as the old love, or something that makes them think what they got better than this in the past and have a comparison occurs. It makes them hold on and think no other as well as the former love. The importance, they choose to confine themselves with their good memories. Because of those memories may be obtained once and can’t find anywhere else.
I disagree with this article because when love happened and ended. We have to accept and face reality. To make myself move forward and get something new to happen in the future. If we only for hold on with the former love may make them miss a good thing in the present moment and missing to meet with a better person. If we took a former that we thought it better to decide at a present moment, these aren’t make you better and move on. But those things will make you overwhelmed with grief, mourn, and stepped backward involuntarily.