Hi
First of all I know you are in a very different time zone to me, I cannot imagine how life must be in Thailand as maybe you cannot imagine my life in the UK. Maybe you think of Big Ben, and London and red buses, as I may think of temples, incense Buddhists, mopeds and tasty food. Although the distance is far I am happy we had a really nice time chatting and it feels good.
Talking via the internet is not the same as real conversation and real contact together. But talking via the internet is an opportunity to know each other, the things we like, the way we think and admire the personality. Some guys probably use this site for mass dating, and they are interested in one thing but I am thinking very differently from this. I am not frustrated with talking, I want to get to know you. So thank you for spending time.
Your photos are very beautiful and I am looking at them to hold in my imagination how you look and how it could be to stand in front of you for real, hold out a hand and meet with a smile. Maybe as a friend or maybe as more. It is quite a nice thought to hold for moment, like someone emerging from the mist.
I want to tell you something about where I am in my life, some of my dreams and aspiration for the future. I also want to tell you why they are not just dreams but also something I want to realise.
First I am single, and it is recent that I am single. I was together with a girl for 4 years, I don’t date short term, I am interested in a future, not a cycle of change that leads nowhere. In my relations things became bad for some time, so I do not need a long pause to understand the next step in my life. Everything is clear and my heart is free and full of energy. I have an open heart that is not locked away in a fortress of fear built by someone else.
I have beautiful thoughts and ambitions for a future but cautious to not be hurt along the way. This is only natural for us all. I never want to be deceived but open too believe in dreams.
I like people who are smart, who are free to speak their minds to go on a journey of their mind as much as they are free to go on a journey of love. I believe there is a journey of the mind, a journey of our heart and a journey of our passions in life. This is why I am interested to know the things you enjoy, the way that you think. To see how we link together in many ways. Maybe you realise I write quite poetic and with analogy, but I think this is part of being perceptive and cutting through the everyday material world to see real values of what is good in life. To be sincere, open and honest.
I am an easy going person, who likes to go with the flow, I guess I am an artist and scientist in the same mind. To be creative and yet try to understand. I like passion to have flames, but in control to not be burned. I like to be the man that build a home and decorate it with a mutual respect.
You may wonder why I chose to come to this site and speak to you. There was no big plan. There was no plan to talk to you, but it happened as if by its own chance. This in itself could be rose petals passing in the wind, or it could be something more real, it is hard to say. I also look for friends as well as look for something more serious.
I have lived in the UK, in Italy and Ukraine, I got quite a bit of experience of living in different countries for my work and study. Also my family is mixed. My grandmother was Greek, my other grandmother was Danish, and the rest of my family is English. So my parents and me are very welcoming of all cultures and nationality. It is my mixed culture that gave me the passion to experience much of the world and it is why I am not a typical foreign man. I learned several languages and lived as a local in the places I went. Therefore to come to Thailand and asia is natural to me. Why should I leave England, … I could ask this question every time before I travelled. The world is big and there is a lot to know about life and many reasons to visit places. England has always been my home though.
There are some specific reasons to come to Thailand. First I have a big passion to learn about eastern philosophy and Buddhism, and the culture of the east. Often Thailand is referred to as the land of smiles and I want to discover something about myself through the eyes of the East. Then there is a business idea I have which I want to explore and understand in Thailand maybe. Then there is an interest in eastern food. I also want to further my career with international experience. I am an honest person so I cannot lie, that Thai women are very pretty and I am looking for a long term partner for the rest of my life.
From all my travel you may think I am not stable to be in a relation but this is far from the truth. I have a very real burning desire to start a family and be with someone I can love the rest of my life.
Nobody can arrange the future entirely as they want it, but I am keen to know you better and talk to you more. I wanted to tell you something more about me so you can feel comfortable. If what I write touches part of your desires in life then this is a great. I am keen not to be an illusion, we can have so many things to talk about as a friend or as more in a relationship so it is a pleasure to know you.
I hope you had sweet dreams