Lovers know each other very well.
The perpetrator knows very well how to oppress the victim.
If there was physical abuse present prior to the incident,
the woman would know right away there'd be beating just by looking at his expression.
So, even if he didn't cuss or beat her up,
it's hard to express her refusal.
- Because of fear. {1} - Objection!
If she was beaten and raped by someone she had loved at one time, our society did not do a good job of protecting her.