Although, I won't try to stop him.
I would completely cut off ties with such trash and tell Elinalise it's fine for her to start living in this house today.
In that case, depending on Sylphy's approval it might end up with a pseudo parent and child bowl...No, I won't be with anyone except Sylphy... [7]
No but, indirectly you could say it's for Sylphy's sake after all...