Yeah, me for FIVE years now, really!
But I have found, myself, and watching friends... it is much better to WAIT FOR SOMETHNG GOOD... than to be with just 'someone', going through the motions, and maybe they really like you, but you KNOWS they are not right for you.
I was joking about 'scaring' me.... because you are a lot like me.... see many things exactly the same way, understand how WE should have a smooth, peaceful home, yet do things together, and BE CLOSE to one another, mentally, physically, spiritually, all of it.... So I what I was thinking, actually.... was.... "where has this chick been?" She is perfect FOR ME... (well almost.... hahah) No one is perfect, honey, not you, not me... but we each need to know what offends, or treads on the other....I would never intentionally do ANYTHING to hurt or upset you.... but you can bet something will happen.... and you will want to sink your claws in me, and not in a good way. So I want you to take a breath in those times, and tell me in a loving way, that something is bothering you and you think I messed up.... I will discuss it with you, and truly listen to your side of the issue.... because after all, people should never hurt the one they care for, not even a little bit. Then I get you flowers, or do something for you, that let's you know, that if you are hurting, I am hurting.
You are a fabulous girl!!! I am very interested in you.... and if we decide to become a couple, it will because we both want it, that we care enough to work through everything, together, big stuff and small stuff.
Had to go to sleep last night, otherwise I would have stayed with you.... it was 4 am here when I went to bed.. Hope to cache you a little later when you get up....
Please don't give up.... stay with it.... stay with me.... I think it could be great!
Mark mzintek@yahoo.com