I believe in honestly communication and definitely, Honestly but Tactfully and RESPECTFULLY, expressing what I feel. A "girl" may feel intimidated. My woman would KNOW (& allow) that I'm expressing myself, awaiting Her opinion on what WE should do, so that WE can reach a conclusion TOGETHER and more than 50% of the time (9/10s) I compromise, because I'm that much into wanting to make My Relationship work from My Friend to my Lover/Companion/Wife.