My boyfriend is 20 years older than me. I have to say that besides love,he also helps me out financially. I admit it wasn’t love at first sihht but he soon proved he could be everything for me and the love grew. We’ve been together for almost four years now but the more we’re together the more different it seems we are. He is serious about everything, especially these days when I’m just about to finish university : he has too many plans for me when I just need a break to relax after four years of studying. What should I do?