What is the secret to Eliza's happy adolescence? We often think of adolescence as a difficult period: the stereotypical teenager makes poor decisions, hangs out with the wrong friends, or takes dangerous risks. Many parents often dread these years because they think their children will stop talking to them and refuse to follow their rules. However, recent research suggests that this common assumption about adolescence is often not true. Many teens not only survive these years, they thrive Instead of rebelling many adopt the values of their parents. Instead of getting into trouble, they learn to work hard. Instead of forming negative relationships, they look for good role models and find supportive friends. In particular, teens equipped with specific skills and qualities may be better at avoiding the dangers others experience.