That is when I began what I will coin my “20-something walkabout.” The time when I decided to leverage my worry-free lifestyle to do nothing but selfishly discover what made me happy, and do some serious self reflection to figure out what I loved about myself. A practice I realized, much like binge watching the ‘Real Housewives,’ one can only do alone and not while in a relationship. I started trimming the fat in my life, and not just ending my months-long McDonald’s pity party, but trimming the negative and insecure behaviors from my life, which I had once let take over my personality when I lost myself in a relationship.