The punishment the lovers with violence, it is not properly because it is a person's privacy. They have not made serious mistakes. You must remember that they are feeling. Meanwhile The punishment should be appropriate to the offense. It should not be excessive punishment. At the same time, life partner must know how to forgive each other because love is a learning and acceptance. So, we should know to forgive and face to face with the problem It will be the correct way to solve the problem.