At 25, you've had time for some
crucial life experiences, including a relationship or two
that may have improved your Mr. Right radar. Jessica, for example, was linked to Captain America star Chris Evans and Derek Jeter before she started dating Justin. "You've
probably dated enough to have a better idea of what you don't
want in a man, which makes it easier to know what you can
live with and can't live without," says Orbuch.
Perhaps the most important aspect of waiting is that you'll
know what your goals and values really are, says Paul Coleman,
PsyD, author of The Complete Idiot's
Guide to Intimacy. While you don't
want to marry someone just like you,
marriage is a lot easier if you two
share a similar outlook on life.
Twenty-four and already married
to the man of your dreams? Don't
worry: Many young marriages survive.
But given the choice, you might
consider putting off the big day until
your mid-20s or later.