ignore this person, the the you act, way look, and speak does not manifest the de sire to recognize the presence of the other When we are loved, we wish the other to recognize our presence, and this is a very important practice . You must do whatever is necessary to be able to do this: recognize the presence of the person you love several times each day To attain this goal, it is also necessary to practice oneness of body and mind. Practice an in-breath and an out-breath three times, five times, seven times; then you approach this person, you look at him or her mindfully, with a smile, and you begin to say the second mantra "Dear one, I know that you are here, and it makes me very happy." lf you practice in this way with a lot of concentration and mindfulness, you will see that this person will open immediately, like a flower blossoming. To be loved is to be recognized, and