I'm a girl & like most,yes I too have dreams about my man.The qualities I would look for are:1.Responsible-Must know why he wants to get married and what he expects in a partner.Not the blindly dating types who hop from one girl to next without any direction.2.Decisive-Must be able to take decisions & stand by them.I don't want a grown up baby booty.He must have amind of his own.3.Should be a good conversationalist.Must have a good sense of humor.4.Must be presentable.I don't need any drop-dead gorgeous types(I think,I'm not exactly what you call an eye-sore.Mind you this is not vanity!!).5.Should be health conscious and a little effort in the grooming department would be appreciated.6.Should be well-settled(that doesn't mean I'm a gold-digger,mind you.I have worked hard to arrive at a certain level & I expect the same from him).7.Lastly,just as I shall join in his family as a member & not a guest,I expect the same from him.I don't know if I'm asking for a lot but a balanced profile I believe should have these qualities.I believe.a girl generally looks for a touch of her dad in her husband.Dad is always a daughter's first love :)