I 'm going out with a really nice man . We 've been together for two years now . He 's older than me , got married when he was really young . They , got divorced after five years , and he was really upset , so now he does n't like thinking about marriage at all . He says he would rather yait to see how things work out , but getting married and having a family are important to me What if he never wants to get married again ? I really love him , but I do n't know what to do ! Should I wait for him ?