Cause and effect ***
Valid during many months: This quality of time will help you to develop a deeper understanding of those psychological areas that are connected with the experience of pain, suffering and rejection. Often these experiences took place in the distant past, in early childhood or at the onset of puberty. Being put down or rejected during these especially sensitive periods of our lives leaves wounds and scars behind, which adults - mostly without realizing it - feel as anxiety about their own body, feelings of inadequacy, or even worse, their own inferiority. Such sensitivities can have a very bad effect on our feelings about life and our interpersonal relationships. They can cause us to avoid deep emotional experiences for fear of new pain, and can at worst even lead to us badly hurting other people by "hitting them below the belt".
This influence is especially well suited to so deepening the understanding of these interrelations, that the first inklings of how to carry out a healing can be perceived. The injury itself can become a symbol of what is necessary in order to carry out a healing. During this phase it is important to talk to other people who are interested in this theme. See yourself in others and others in yourself - this fosters a direct understanding more than any discussion.
This time is well suited to penetrating the complicated connections and dependencies between human behavior, the psyche and such early injuries - to differentiating between cause and effect. However, you should not be satisfied with plain diagnosis, rather you should use your knowledge to try to outline possible methods of and routes to healing - whether for yourself or for someone who has confided in you.