Wish to tell you about my past marital life , it's absolutely nothing to write home about . I was married for 18 years , but my marriage failed on the account of infidelity from my ex-wife . when i discovered that my ex-wife had an extra-marital affair with my colleague in the office, it was a night mere and shameful story to share. However, i want you to know me more just like i want to know you too. I believe in transparency. i confronted her, and she never admitted what she did, but the truth revealed when she was pregnant during my trip to Norway for a rig assignment . She said i was responsible for the baby. However, i stayed for a whole period of 4 months in Norway . So, i didn't argue that and had to wait for her delivery time. At that time, i still showed to her that i cared about and loved her. So, upon delivery, we went for a DNA test which clarifies to me that i was not the biological father of her baby. While i tried to forget and forgive her, she ran away with the stupid man and called me after some years later that she wanted a divorce . . I had to give in and accepted the fact that everything in life happens for a reason . To be Frank, i have been scared to love again or have any form of relationship but i won't forget the fact that i need a new family because i am not getting any younger in age at the moment. I need to know you more and see if you have a good and open heart. Beauty , job and family background do not matter to me.