Mary, Your Astrologer
CHAPTER 1: HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHER PEOPLE
CHAPTER 2: HOW YOU SEE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
CHAPTER 3: YOUR DETAILED RELATIONSHIP ANALYSIS
CHAPTER 4 : YOUR COMPATIBILITY SCORES
CHAPTER 5 : YOUR PARTNER'S CHARACTER ANALYSIS
CHAPTER 6 : YOUR LOVE AND ROMANCE FORECAST
CHAPTER1: HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHER PEOPLE
SECTION I: How Netnapa Relates to Other People
Pisces on 7th house cusp
You are a perfectionist. No one sets higher standards for you than you do for yourself. While you appear quiet and reserved, you are extremely romantic and sexual. Your highest ideals center around, relationships. When you are disappointed, you inwardly withdraw.
The people you connect with are one of two types. Either they are romantic, sensitive and emotionally expressive or they have been hurt by life in some way and arouse your compassion. Your unions are either blissfully intimate or emotionally isolating.
You wish you didn't worry so much about the mundane and practical details of life and are in genuine awe of dreamers and romantics who manage to get through life without such concerns- thanks to people like you who manage those tiresome details for them.
You are drawn to people who seem sensitive and ethereal. Ideally, they are also emotional and sensitive. Sometimes, however, they are kind but emotionally reclusive, leaving you to seek alternate relationships. Love, for you, has an element of sacrifice.
Neptune, Ruler of 7th house, is in 4th:
Your family situation was so complicated when you were growing up, you didn't emerge into adulthood and adult relationships with a clear sense of appropriate roles and aspirations. If your father was physically present in your childhood home, emotionally he was so caught up in his own issues and disappointments, he wasn't always emotionally present. Even if he was admired and successful, you could have related more to his idealized image than to his reality. On some level, you never felt entirely at home in your home. You might even have had fantasies that you were adopted or not really part of your family. This would have been especially true if one of your parents had escapist tendencies or a substance abuse problem.
You unconsciously attempt to work out unresolved issues of early family relationships in your adult relationships. You may attract romantic, sensitive, artistic people whose interests and preoccupations are very different from your own. This can, of course, endow your partner with a fascinating almost mysterious allure which sustains your interest years after your friends' more conventional relationships become stale. This may be a real gift, as long as you are not avoiding day-to-day intimacies by focusing on image, life-style and the more idealistic aspect of the relationship much as what one of your parents did when you were growing up. You would be more likely to fall into this pattern in a live-in relationship. However you have the option to break the family pattern and redefine intimate relationships and conjugal
living in a new way, creating a special, intimate space for you and your partner where the merging as one and dreaming as individuals can flow and ebb in a space that is both close and free.
Sun Square Moon with an orb between 1/2 and 1 degree
When you were growing up, there was a distance between your parents either physically or emotionally. You did not experience mother/father, male/female, yin/yang working together as a unit. Thus, you may have difficulty with at least one intimate tie.
Mercury Conjunct MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
Since you were a child in school, your intellectual and communicative skills attracted the attention of those in positions of authority and you were always able to make your way by being exceptionally clever. This facility serves you well as an adult.
Venus Opposition Uranus with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You need to be close and you need to be free. This is a major life conflict which has always created complications for you in close personal relationships. One manifestation of this may be a tendency to pursue the unavailable or the unreliable.
Mercury Square Asc. With an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You relate to your world through your intellect but you may be so absorbed in your own ideas or projects that you don't always perceive when misunderstandings or cross-purposes place you at odds with others and set up unnecessary barriers to communication.
Moon Trine Venus with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
Lucky you. As a child you received a great deal of love leaving you not only with the capacity to love deeply yourself but with the security of knowing that you have value and that there will always be people you can turn to. You form love ties easily.
Mercury Trine Mars with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
Your sense of humor is one of your outstanding qualities. It usually manifests as a rather wry wit. Anyone you're close to must share this sense of irony. You probably have a special talent or an absorbing interest. Your closest ties are likewise involved.
Mercury Trine Saturn with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You are extremely well-organized and anyone who isn't equally so would annoy you. You are also very practical and fond of routine. A madcap type you couldn't depend on would ultimately make you miserable - no matter how intense the initial emotional attraction.
Saturn Trine MC with an orb between 1 and 3 degrees
You learned at an early age to be cautious with people in a position of authority. This reserve may also extend to personal relationships with those you may admire or respect. Old parenting issues inevitably infiltrate all of your close relationships.
Mars Conjunct Saturn with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Your emotional needs were not met when you were growing up and there was nothing you could do about it. Even today, you tend not to express anger or pain or resentment except when you are in an infrequent rage. This is a problem in close relationships.
Mars Trine MC with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees
Power is sexy to you and even when a relationship is not a romantic one, you find ambitious go-getters in positions of authority very magnetic and fascinating. It is important to you that close ties not only share your goals but are prepared to fight for them.
Moon Sextile Uranus with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees
Your close personal relationships are marked by a sense of comradeship, friendship and a mutual respect for each other's need for independence. Once a relationship is established, you don't require constant contact and reassurance. Space enhances the tie.
Mercury Sesquiquadrate Jupiter with an orb between 1 and 2 degrees
Details are not your cup of tea. You are fascinated by philosophy and the world of ideas. You are a great talker and reader and your best companions will be those who share your concepts and ideals. You prefer professional people with a certain flair.
Moon Conjunct Mars with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Your love-hate relationship with your mother has led to an emotional ambivalence in current close ties. You are, at once, very needy and very angry about your neediness. This may make you somewhat cantankerous at times. You are very quick-tempered.
Sun Square Mars with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Something in your relationship with your father aroused in you either fear or anger or both. Your relationships with men - personally or professionally - are not comfortable and when you are feeling vulnerable, you can be overly defensive or challenging.
Sun Trine Jupiter with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
You have a genial, pleasant quality which inspires confidence in others. It sometimes surprises you the way people trust you with their innermost thoughts. Moral integrity is important to you and, while you are not judgmental, you will not violate a principle.
Pluto Trine MC with an orb between 5 and 8 degrees
Power struggles often enter into your relationships - both personal and professional. You have an innate fear of being dominated owing to your experience with a controlling parent. Strong people fascinate you. You're a little afraid of people you love.
Sun does not aspect Asc.
People do not receive an accurate first impression of you. Owing to shyness or lack of confidence, you have cultivated a persona which is not expressive of the person you experience yourself to be. This creates complications in personal relationships.
Moon does not aspect Mercury
It's as if the emotional and rational sides of your nature take turns expressing themselves. You are either utterly detached and objective about a situation or so emotionally involved you have no perspective. You are not in touch with your feelings.
SECTION II:How Paolo Relates to Other People
Taurus on 7th house cusp
Your intense need to be in control of your situation along with your dread of losing anything either emotionally or materially is the underlying reason you are so drawn to people you feel are reliable and dependable. You tend to attract partners with money.
You are passionate and deeply emotional but often rather reserved and secretive. Your partners tend to be less complicated and often quite possessive. They become insecure when they are not sure about what you are thinking or feeling. Jealousy may become an issue.
You do like having your own way and one way or another you manage to get it. Despite your powerful persona, however, you are emotionally far needier than most people realize for love and acceptance from people who admire your strength rather than fear it.
Your partners tend to be charming, romantic and often creative. While they may outwardly yield to your need to lead the way, they are by no means weak. Sometimes they are gently manipulative and can be quite stubborn. Physical attractiveness matters to you.
Venus, Ruler of 7th house, is in 11th:
You and your partner