Look to the Future
Some days it will seem like the future looks bleak but the fact remains, there is life after divorce. What do you want it to look like?
It’s not too early to start painting a picture of your new life.
How quickly you start rebuilding and moving on towards that new life will largely be determined by how well you manage your divorce.
Be prepared and informed. Arm yourself with information and make your own decisions.
People who take an active role generally do much better emotionally and legally than those who avoid taking responsibility and let others do the work for solving their divorce problems.
The more you are in control of your negotiations, the better off you are all the way around. You will get a better settlement, better compliance with agreements, less post-divorce conflict, better co-parenting, and more good will. You will feel better, heal faster and move on more quickly.