Few questions, did you ever think that Venus complained about those things to you just to make you happy? After all, she is your daughter and wouldn't want to hurt you, from how you were crying in your Instagram video when she left you were very attached to her and she knew. Venus seems like a personal and mature young woman for her age. Why would you disown Venus as well? For not listening to you? She does need to live her own life, I'm not sure how your past was Margaret, whether you were abused or anything... if you were and wanted to shelter Venus from having the same pain it's understandable but how she has been handling your harassment and threats so far, I say she won't make any mistakes to put her life in jeopardy. Please go to a psychiatrist or therapist so they can help you move on and start your own life again, hell find some hobbies or something and maybe Venus might want to talk with you again. From what I heard though, you have a lot to prove. I believe Venus' side of the story. I just really hope you can get some help and not be insensitive to your own daughter when she wants to live her own life.