I have seen it too many times, Thai girl loves young Thai guy, ok natural. I understand that, but then they have a baby and suddenly the Thai guy doesn't make enough money to support his wife and child, sometimes two children. Then I see the changes the woman goes through. The woman becomes hardened and almost undesirable. And the mother takes care of the children while she goes to "work" in Pattaya... It kills me to see the path. It kills me to see the people I admire step into the trap